Tag: unconditional love

• The Lie Behind Transactional Love

  The first step is to not downplay the seemingly innocuous maliciousness of the lie that is transactional love. It can’t help but always let you down.

  Catherine aka “Bird”

  November 4, 2021

  Christianity, Death of a Marriage, Drugs, Everything Else, Moving To Texas, Writing

  agape, Al-Anon, alcoholism, Bible, Christianity, divorce, expectations, father wounds, Jesus, life, marriage, mercy in addiction, random, transactional relationships, unconditional love

• The “Off The Record” Rule For Honest Parenting

  Recently, I wrote a post about parenting with the “Because I Said So” technique. Like anything else, some people probably responded to this method while others, like me, bristled under it. From an early age, my kids were given explanations when possible. I told my kids about being abused, and what parts of my life seemed heavily […]

  Catherine aka “Bird”

  May 9, 2014

  Everything Else

  addictions, adulthood, communication, discipline, drugs, families, Family, Father, honesty, immortality, Mother, parent teen, parenting, parenting adults, punishment, rules, sex, stepfamily, talk, teen-agers, teenagers, The Circle of Trust, unconditional love