Ruthful Thoughts about Life & Jeffrey Dean Morgan

rs_1024x759-151005124758-1024-jeffrey-dean-morgan-the-good-wife-ch-100515It feels weird to write a post when I have nothing useful to share, but like I said before, I need to get better at writing when I don’t have something sad to write about. So here goes. Prepare yourself for something stupid.

Not much is going on in my little world right now, which has freed me up to notice a few things. The other maxresdefaultnight, I woke up in the wee morning hours with a bout of insomnia. What was keeping me awake, you ask? The word “ruthless”. Where did that word come from? Can you be “ruthful”? Full of ruth? Was there some wonderful Ruth who launched “ruthless” as being exactly opposite of her?

ie: Jane wasn’t ruthless; instead, she was full of ruth. She was ruthful.

I know. Don’t judge me.

"Shoot" -- Diane, Cary and Lucca defend the grieving father of a shooting victim (Blair Underwood) in a defamation suit over a billboard he put up describing a gun store owner as a murderer. Also, a romantic rendezvous between Alicia and Jason is interrupted when Alicia learns that Grace is being accused of plagiarizing her college entrance essay, on THE GOOD WIFE, Sunday, March 20 (9:00-10:00 PM, ET/PT) on the CBS Television Network.  Pictured (l-r)  Julianna Margulies as Alicia Florrick and Jeffrey Dean Morgan as Jason Crouse Photo: David M. Russell/CBS ©2016 CBS Broadcasting, Inc. All Rights Reserved
Alicia and Jason, getting it on in public. 

The other thing is The Good Wife and Jeffrey Dean Morgan. I watched the entire series. Seasons 1-6,  Alicia pseudo loves Will, but there was depth to the whole show. Then, the show introduces Jeffrey Dean Morgan as Alicia’s love interest/bad boy investigator. From then on, it’s about Alicia and Jason getting it on. My question is, is the entire world of women in lust for Jeffrey? I mean, whoa, buddy. I can’t even 100% hate his character on The Walking Dead, and this is sad because that character is evil. I mean, truly evil.

I’m so shallow!!

I set up an online dating profile this week, and I’m talking to a guy I met through it. We swapped out crazy-dog-ladyFacebook pages, and in looking at mine from an outsider’s perspective, I find that I give the impression I’m a crazy dog/cat person with no life. I have a life; I just don’t tend to share it much on Facebook. My collection of friends are diverse, and animal videos might be the only thing in the whole world that offends none of them.

I’m seriously going to have to fix that if I’m going to be graded on what kind of person I am by that social media!

Hope you guys have a great weekend!!


Sensitive Men & The Women Who Don’t Love Them

Common-Sense-Quote-Funny-Online-PicturesIn the process of relocating to Texas, starting a new job, moving into a new place, and the myriad of other things going on these days, I haven’t been as plugged into my web life as I once was. Yesterday, I checked my Quora account (out of sheer boredom), and whoa! I have missed quite a bit of activity there. As it would turn out, one of my answers on Quora to the question, “Do women really date sensitive men?” had angered a guy, who I assume, considered himself a sensitive guy.

My answer was, depends on the level of sensitivity. I like a guy who shows empathy in the world, is kind to children and animals, and isn’t a complete narcissistic a$$hole. On the other hand, I don’t normally find a very weepy guy who cries when watching stuff like Steel Magnolias and Hallmark commercials very attractive. Maybe if their team loses in the Super Bowl, yes. But, there has to be some kind of balance there, especially since crying people in general make me nervous. I never know what to do or say when someone is crying, and having a guy around who cries a lot for minor stuff would leave me in a state of anxiety too much of the time. That was just an opinion though.

Mr. Sensitive, though, took exception to my opinion, stating that I am basically what is wrong in the world today. Single-handedly, I have brought about the downfall of sensitive men worldwide, and the side effects of my callous opinion, and others like mine, are serial killers and child molesters.

Really, dude?! That’s a monumental reach, and kind of stupid, if you ask me.

I only wish I was that powerful a voice in the world today.

I’ll take an ultra-sensitive guy over a whiner any day, though.


Look, attractiveness between people is truly subjective. For instance, physically, I’ve always found men from latin heritages more attractive. I don’t really know why. Brown hair and brown eyes have always appealed to me. The perfect 10 for me wouldn’t have soft hands or really, even work some kind of desk job. I like callous on a guy’s hands, and some muscles. I fall for mechanics, farmers, welders, construction guys….not CEO’s, computer programmers, salesmen. or the professors of this world. I tend to fall for the charmers who can make me laugh. I really kind of hate that, since a charmer can also be very shallow, but still… I’m definitely into guy’s guys. Those tend to be the characteristics of men I notice. Can I be held responsible for something I really have no control over?

713c2e175436e551a0adc5ea6476070dIf Mr. Sensitive is having problems catching the eye of any ladies, maybe he’s trying to attract the kind that don’t find him attractive. I believe there is someone for everyone in this world. You just have to locate them. Plus, the real problem is finding someone who is looking for something you have while also possessing something in themselves you are looking for. Mutual attraction is required. Everyone finds this hard to do, sensitive or not sensitive, and feeling sorry for yourself, or blaming ridiculously horrible problems like murder and rape on one person who doesn’t like your type of personality is just plain stupid and makes me think, sensitivity might not be the real problem here.

Now, I’ll step off my soapbox now, and get on with my day.

~ Bird

If any of the following men become available, I’m open to a blind date:


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